Monday, June 29, 2009

farewell to Iowa...

I am about to sign off the computer for the last time here in Iowa. I flew up yesterday so I could be here tomorrow when the movers come and pack up our little apartment. I have to admit I have mixed emotions. I love, love, love the idea of being close to home and having the girls grow up around family because that is what Dave and I value the most. However, this past year was full of so many precious memories that it's a little hard to say good-bye. After five years of residency and a grueling last year with oral exams, Dave really needed a break in order to reconnect with us and relax a little. Iowa City was the perfect place for our little family to do just that. We spent almost every weekend together doing something fun. I finally started to see glimpses of the Dave I married and I fell in love with him all over again. He was able to just be a husband and a dad, and let me tell you, he is one hell of a husband and a dad. He is supportive and dedicated and loyal, and we are truly partners in this great journey we chose to take on together. As for the girls and I this year, we made it work everyday together. I stayed home for the first time since having Aubrey, and I didn't regret that decision at all. I support working moms and I support stay-at-home moms because BOTH jobs are equally demanding. There are pros and cons for each one, and I actually enjoy both sides. However, being home with the girls this year really allowed me to get to know them and their personalities. It allowed me to watch them grow and change, and it allowed me to watch them interact with each other in only a way that sisters can. It allowed me to hear every "I love you" and it allowed me to watch them squeal with glee everytime daddy walked through the front door. Although our time in Iowa has come to an end, I will always cherish the memories we made here. We will walk through a new front door on Wednesday, but like they say, "home is where the heart is"...thank you, Iowa, for allowing us to call you home this past year. You'll always have a little part of our hearts.

2 comments:

Ashley said...

You are lucky to have had such an incredible year in Iowa, and I know you will forever treasure the memories your family made there. Everything happens for a reason, and your time in Iowa was no exception.

Have a safe trip home!

txmomof2 said...

Are you going to return to work in Texas or will you remain a SAHM? Best wishes!